Friday, October 2, 2009

Alignment of the "Saltshaker"

Alignment is “a state of agreement or cooperation among persons, groups, nations, etc., with a common cause or viewpoint” according to dictionary dot com. I immediately thought of the house where I live on campus, endearingly referred to as the “Saltshaker”. Eight young men from my church live there including me, and we generally are supposed to function as a unit in order to maintain a pleasant “home away from home”. In addition to this main purpose, objectives outlined include such things as: keeping the house clean, cooking dinner four nights a week, and providing a healthy atmosphere physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

Formal management of the house is responsibility of a “house dad”, but because of the small size of the group, personal accountability to each other is a significant part of how the house of managed informally. Because we each come from different families and different hometowns (albeit all in central Illinois), we will each naturally deviate to operating according to our own ideas of “how things should be” if not aligned.

The largest practical means of aligning the group to focus on our objectives is the semesterly house meeting, where we evenly divide up all jobs (from cooking to cleaning bathrooms) based on a point basis. All jobs have rules which are written down in a list of job descriptions, and additionally include motivations like: “if dishes are not done, party responsible will acquire all subsequent dirty dishes until job is completed.” And because we know each other well enough, we can feel free to refer each other to the job description if someone is neglecting their duties. On the other hand, the reward system for doing jobs is weak in my opinion, as it consists only of a sticker chart for each person’s job each week. Although everyone is pretty honest in withholding their sticker if they failed to do their job, the chart seems to hold little importance in terms of shame or pride in completing duties.

What management (the house dad) might do to maintain alignment in doing jobs correctly and completely is to institute a better reward system by peer evaluation- perhaps a system like a rent surcharge to poor job performance as indicated by a simple survey of the house residents each month.

Another part of alignment that has become evident at the Saltshaker is difference of opinions in procedural and organizational matters. Two examples are whether the shopper can buy groceries at a more expensive store if the food quality is slightly higher or the store is easier to shop at, and the arrangement of parking to get eight vehicles in a single driveway without creating the environment for fender benders or trapping others’ vehicles. What management can do to align us in these matters is to consider the options in light of the overall house objectives and write down the procedures to give concrete direction to us all. Also, it helps that we each are thankful to have such a nice place to stay with cheap rent, and thus are somewhat internally motivated to maintain the house. “For the good of the ‘Shake’” is a popular slogan we say occasionally (when someone needs to “take one for the team”) to remind us that personal sacrifices must sometimes be made to keep the good thing we have. Thus the most effective way to maintain alignment in the situation of the Saltshaker is to well define our objectives and tasks, and then promote each resident to take a personal stake in this home of ours.

9 comments:

  1. That's an interesting post. Do the house mates at the Saltshaker also do social activities together outside of the meals? If so, the bond with the other who live at the place might be important in the motivation.

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  2. It's interesting to discuss peer-peer management, because in many ways, I think it is more difficult. I think it's harder to be so harsh on people that are your friends, especially when it could be risky to your relationship or bond.

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  3. Sounds like a great house. I wish I was so lucky to live a place like that.

    I think you and your housemates need to see a different side of each other. Do you do much together in more social situations? I suggest that many of you join the same student organization. You mentioned you are all from the same church. Is there a college youth group that is associated with that denomination?

    Being together in outside of just your house could built up comradery which would result in the house wanting to work together more.

    Just a thought.

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  4. Fred,
    Something that seems to bring parties closer together is having a problem that must be solved. If no such problem currently exists, you could create one yourself by, say, unleashing a groundhog in your house or shed. The teamwork involved in devising schemes to eliminate said vermin would unite your house together in the bond of glittering triumph. (Assuming you succeed... If not, may God be with you.)

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  5. Fred-

    I recall being in a very similar situation a couple of years ago in a house of girls. We found that pranks were a GREAT way to bond together as a house. When we would be "attacked"- hmmm, like have our furniture moved out onto our roof- we would work together as a group to figure out a solution and form of retaliation. We established an "attack one, you attack ALL" code within our house. So, do you happen to have any mutual friends that you could play a prank on?

    *Disclaimer- This method may negatively affect your relationships with your other friends...aka the ones you prank, but i guess, who cares, as long as your living conditions are better...

    **Second Disclaimer- Don't do anything illegal

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  6. One more thought,

    I have found that oftentimes petty annoyances can serve to drive a wedge between cohabitants. Something that may not bother someone as a general rule may become unbearable if faced on a daily basis. Pets, for example, may be a source of such annoyances. If you have any noise-emitting pets, such as a barking dog or a talking parrot, I suggest you leave him at your permanent address for the duration of your residence at "The Saltshaker". This may cause your pet (or whatever the potentially troublesome entity may be) some distress, but as you mentioned in your post, sometimes sacrifices must be made "for the good of the Shake."

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  7. Another thought for me.

    Sometimes (under the right circumstances) a house can bond together over competition. I suggest creating some kind of semester long contest at "The Shake." One idea would be to see who can skip the least (or most) amount of classes. Some sort of reward or honor could be placed on the winner or current frontrunner.

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  8. Fred,
    Greco-Roman wrestling has been the most proven method of historical male bonding, and I suggest you implement regular and spontaneous contests. Perhaps you could have a feature matchup each evening before dinner, such as yourself and the house dad. The winner might then be promoted to be the house dad, having proven his dominant strength.

    Also, a champion belt could be given to each semester's champion. Occasionally weapons might be used for an especially exciting match, such as a high-powered super soaker. Also, you could implement punishment for losing, such as the loser loses all shaving privileges. In this way, all outsiders could quickly categorize your house according to strength simply by looking at beard length.

    Such a system would promote camaraderie, mutual admiration and overall physical strength and tenacity, all valuable traits for a house of young men.

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  9. hmm..
    This sounds like a horrible place to live. I would suggest moving out unless they have a wood burning stove in which this may assist in motivating and maintaining alignment.

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